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From Crash to Confidence: How Letting Go of Self-Doubt Powers Your Resilience

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   It was a warm autumn day, and I had decided to take my new motorcycle on its maiden voyage. Sure, I had taken the bike for a few spins around the block, but now I was ready for the real adventure: hitting the beautiful trails of the Uinta Mountains. The acrid scent of fallen leaves and moist earth greeted me as I unloaded the bike, excitement coursing through me. But as I started down the trail, I was struck by a sobering thought—though I’d had my motorcycle license since I was 18 and I was now in my late thirties, I’d never ridden off-road before. I had always been a passenger. 

That realization hit me as I descended a hill, and doubt crept in. Could I handle this? Panic took over, and before I knew it, I crashed—leaving me with a couple of broken bones, a bad sprain, and a lingering question: what if I hadn’t doubted myself? Would I have completed the ride and added it to my list of victories?
 
​Overcoming self-doubt feels a lot like that moment on the bike—it’s about trusting your abilities, even when you’re in unfamiliar territory. When doubt takes the backseat, you save energy for the ride ahead instead of battling your inner critic. You’re free to adapt, grow, and add new experiences to your "can-do" list, even if the trail gets bumpy. 

Letting go of self-doubt creates space for self-belief, the engine of resilience. It’s not about being fearless but about trusting you’ll find your way, no matter how steep the hill. When you silence the whispers of doubt, you’re better equipped to face the twists and turns of life—and maybe even the trails of the Uintas—with confidence.
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